The Pair-a-Dise Couples Retreat
June 15–20, 2026 | Xcalak, Mexico
The Beachfront couples experience
Reconnect where the world disappears
We are renting out a WHOLE eco boutique resort which means:
Quiet
Privacy
Unplugging
7 Couples MAX
You read that right. . . We have a PRIVATE beach
Step out of your routine and into a space designed for relaxation and fun with NO required tan lines.
Our retreat is a full-property escape where you get to choose the pace, the vibe, and the level of comfort that feels right for your body.
Over the course of the week, you’ll be invited to explore optional yoga sessions, enjoy a relaxed and empowering photo shoot, and connect with others in a supportive, judgment-free environment. Whether you come to unwind, express yourself, or simply breathe a little deeper, this retreat is about reconnecting and decompressing.
More than a getaway — it’s a chance to reconnect and unwind
Life moves fast, and intimacy can easily slip into the background. This retreat invites you to slow down, breathe a little deeper, and rediscover each other in a relaxed, open, and completely judgment-free environment. Over six beautiful days in Xcalak, you’ll share experiences meant to bring you closer.
This is a chance to:
Sink into a secluded beach with crystal-clear views
Enjoy optional yoga and grounding practices together
Play, laugh, explore, and enjoy each other without expectations
Let go of screens and stress
Everything is taken care of — so all you need to do is show up, relax into the moment, and enjoy each other.
What’s included
🏝 Private beachfront accommodations (early bird = beachfront room, no extra charge)
🍽 All meals — fresh, nourishing, and locally inspired
🧘♀️ Daily yoga classes (no experience needed)
🎉 Group Activities
📸 Professional couples photoshoot
🎁 Welcome bag
🚐 Round-trip airport transfers
🌅 Access to a private beach & peaceful surroundings
❤️ A safe, supportive, and intimate space with no more than 7 couples
14 new potential friends included. This will be an exclusive selected group.
If all 7 couple spots fill, we might have a little surprise add-on for the group—no promises, just something fun we’re dreaming up.
➕ Optional add-ons:
• Relaxing couples massage available onsite
• Guided local excursions to explore the natural beauty of the region
Who this retreat is for:
Couples who crave time to truly unwind—who want to relax by the ocean, savor incredible food, move their bodies with gentle yoga, and reconnect without the noise of everyday life.
It’s for partners ready to leave it all behind, slow down, laugh, play, and rediscover one another in an intimate, exclusive, and unforgettable setting.
Location & Accommodations
Welcome to Xcalak, Quintana Roo – Mexico’s Best-Kept Secret.
Private. Peaceful. Paradise.
Just 7 private rooms — no crowds, no stress
Each room designed for comfort, intimacy, and rest
Wake up to ocean views, fall asleep to the sound of the waves
Wi-Fi-available but discouraged. a true digital detox encouraged!
Tucked away on the southernmost tip of the Mexican Caribbean, Xcalak is where the jungle meets the sea—and the rest of the world fades away. Unspoiled and untouched, this sleepy beach town is a hidden gem for those craving real connection, natural beauty, and soul-deep peace.
Think: crystal-clear waters, palm-lined shores, and no resorts in sight. Just you, your partner, and miles of quiet coastline to explore (or do nothing at all).
Xcalak is part of the world’s second-largest barrier reef, making it perfect for snorkeling, paddleboarding, or simply watching the sunset paint the ocean gold.
It’s remote enough to feel like a true escape, yet deeply grounding in all the right ways. The perfect place to unplug, unwind, and re-link.
Room Options
🛎 First-Come, First-Served
Rooms will be assigned in the order deposits are received. If you have a strong preference for room type, we recommend reserving early to secure your top choice.
Help us book the retreat out: If you recommend this retreat to someone tell them to drop your name. We are happy to offer a $200 finders fee, so spread the word to people you want to share the beach with!
Your stay at the includes five restful nights at our private beachfront eco-resort in Xcalak, Mexico. With just 7 rooms available, each space is thoughtfully designed to offer privacy, comfort, and a true connection to nature.
We offer two types of accommodations:
🌿 Bungalows
Recently remodeled and surrounded by lush greenery, our cozy garden bungalows are a peaceful hideaway just a short stroll from the beach. Each includes a king-sized bed, private bathroom with hot and cold showers, fresh towels, toiletries, and all the essentials for a relaxed stay.
🌊 Villa Rooms
Just steps from the sand, our spacious villa rooms offer more room to stretch out and unwind, with a king bed, private bath, hot/cold shower, toiletries, and beautiful ocean air all day long.
Meet the Team
We know choosing a retreat is a personal decision, and it’s important to feel comfortable with the people guiding you.
We’d love to meet you — either in person or over Zoom — so you can get to know us, ask questions, and see if this retreat feels like the right fit for you and your partner.
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Brandy and Terry have been married for 25 years — a quarter-century of laughter, growth, missteps, repair, and deepening love. They've weathered life together with intention and grace, and now they’re passionate about creating space for other couples to do the same.
Brandy is a travel agent, certified life coach, and the visionary behind this retreat. She specializes in helping couples design meaningful getaways that create lasting memories — but this retreat goes deeper. With a natural gift for connection and a background in coaching, Brandy guides couples toward clearer communication, renewed intimacy, and more intentional love.
Terry brings a calm, grounded presence to the retreat. With a long career in public service, he’s developed extraordinary skills in conflict resolution, reading emotional undercurrents, staying present under pressure, and holding space when emotions run high. His quiet strength and steady support offer a perfect balance to Brandy’s intuitive leadership.
Together, they model what it means to keep choosing each other — day after day, decade after decade.
At the retreat, they don’t show up as perfect partners with all the answers — they show up as a real couple who’s done the work, and who deeply believes in the power of showing up on purpose for your relationship.
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Married for 16 years and together for 19, Melanie and Steve have built their relationship on a strong foundation of adventure, teamwork, and real-life experience. From backpacking through Central America to living out of a pickup truck camper and road-tripping across the U.S., they've learned how to navigate both the wild and the everyday—together.
They've remodeled homes, moved all over the country, and lived both the adventurous life and the corporate grind. Through it all, they've figured out how to communicate well, play to each other's strengths, and not sweat the small stuff. They know what it's like to be in the trenches—and how to climb out stronger, with a sense of humor intact.
Melanie brings a background in project management, photography, yoga teaching, and leading women's circles. Steve is a problem-solving engineer who can fix just about anything and deliver a perfectly-timed dad joke. Together, they balance each other out and love creating spaces where people can relax, laugh, and reconnect.
Their approach to this retreat is simple: they're not here to tell you how to do marriage. They’re here to create a space where couples can slow down, have fun, and remember what’s good. Their goal is to help you reconnect—not just with your partner, but with the part of yourselves that’s too often buried under day-to-day responsibilities.
Spread the Word, Share the Magic
If you know someone who’d love this retreat, send them our way — and have them mention your name when they book. As a thank-you for helping us fill the space with great humans, we’ll send you a $200 finder’s fee. Invite the kind of people you’d love to share the beach (and the vibes) with!
Pricing
Your investment in reconnection:
$2250.00 Per Person
💑 6-day / 5-night retreat package:
*Includes all lodging, meals, transportation, workshops, yoga, activities & photoshoot.
🌅 Early Bird Bonus:
First 3 couples that book get a beachfront view upgrade at no extra cost in either a bungalow or villa.
Don’t forget — we’re always happy to connect before you book.
Whether it’s a quick chat over Zoom or an in-person meeting, we’d love to meet you and help you decide if this retreat is the right match for you both.
FAQs
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Nope! All levels welcome — everything is designed to meet you where you are. Also, Yoga is totally optional.
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A: To keep this experience intentional, grounded, and stress-free, here’s what’s not included in your retreat package:
✈️ Airfare to and from Mexico (fly into Chetumal International Airport – CTM)
🍹 Alcohol — while it will be available for purchase, it is not included in the retreat price
🧭 Excursions & massages — available as optional add-ons
🛍️ Personal spending, souvenirs, or offsite activities not listed
We encourage mindful, responsible drinking during the retreat. Because this is a small, shared space focused on connection and presence, we ask that all guests honor the collective experience with awareness and care.
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Because our retreat is intentionally small—limited to just 7 couples—we want to make sure this experience is the perfect fit for you. Our goal is to create a supportive, safe, and fun environment where everyone can truly relax, reconnect, and grow together.
Applying helps us get to know you better and ensures that the retreat’s pace, activities, and focus align with your needs and expectations. It’s not about screening you out — it’s about creating a community of couples ready to be fully present and engaged.
If you’re ready to invest in your relationship and join us for this unique, intimate journey, please complete the application. We’ll review it carefully and follow up with next steps.
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A: Totally understandable. Check out Brandy’s podcast where she helps navigate this and more: Click Here
This isn’t your typical getaway —
This is intentional time together. This is unplugging from the real world and nurturing your spark.
📅 June 15–20, 2025 | Xcalak, Mexico
❤️ Only 7 couple spots available — reserve yours today!